Love it! Your wife is having an affair and yet you are worried about her reaction to you exposing the affair?
Nice to see who wears the pants in this family, give me a break.
She should be worried about your reaction and your plan after you expose the affair.
"You end all contact with the OM and commit 110% wholeheartedly to making this marriage great again or we are done, I'll speak to my lawyer get the process started and this is over. I've been staying home with the kids 24/7 and I'll have no problem getting full or joint custody as well as spousal support. You treat me like crap and a 2nd class citizen and I've had enough of this, how long did you think I was going to live like this? I'm worth better than this crap treatment and change begins today regardless if you want in or out of the marriage!"
