How do I expose the affair

[june72]

mb- I am so sorry that this has happened to you. I hope you are feeling much better now.

Have you seen your husband since the ugly incident?

I just hope that you talk to him on your terms. I am worried that he will start to drift into how "he" felt, why "he" is doing what he is doing. IF the conversation turns unhealthy for you- I hope you can end it if necessary or draw firm boundaries.

IDK, there are those wiser here who can advise better.

I just am guessing that his guilt is going to want him to talk to you. But I am not sure if it will genuine concern or just him trying to make his conscience feel better, am I making sense?

Or perhaps he will avoid you like the plague feeling so bad for his hand in all of this, who knows...