You do get beat up, verbally. And you take it better than most.
Everyone here has a shot at coming out of this with an intact and BETTER marriage. Everyone CAN come out of this a better person.
The things you tell us about your wife, you have a good shot...the way I see it you just need to get past and kill some of your internal thinking and conditioning.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK