I will say tho, at some point, all LBS HAVE to accept and forgive and that is mainly for them selves, you can't carry all that anger and angst forever, it will drive you insane.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11