Please help with advice and support

[chatterbug]

I understand exactly what your feeling. That is why the high road is so important. Allows you to keep those 12 years for what they really where. Time spent with a woman you loved. They can only attack for so long before they will stop. That is why you stay dark on her... Its for you.... Not her. And you stay dark until you know you can talk to her and not be angry or bitter. Just sad and disappointed at the outcome. And those feelings fade again. Remember life is long. You have common grounds. Friends , family that love you both... So stay to the high road. In the long run it is the easier path. No regrets and pain frontloaded. Vs... regrets and bitterness and people who you cannot look in the eye because you did not follow the high road.