Just scared of what comes next!

[kissak]

ok...I need a little advice on how to handle something.

Last night my H went to his monthly meeting where he volunteers. When he came home from the meeting he seemed annoyed or bothered. I asked how his meeting went and he said good. Well, I noticed how quiet he was and asked what was wrong. He just said he was aggravated. I asked about what? He said nothing he was just aggravated. So, I let it drop. He clearly didnt want to talk about it. Well, after his shower He went and got on the computer. He went to the alt...checked messages there which he hasnt done lately. While he was doing that I decided to check what he put up as his status on my phone. It said something like he needed to keep his mind and mouth working together. Clearly he was agravated, he even said so, but I hate that I have to go see his alt page to just find out what was wrong. He then came to bed in a perfectly good mood. Im not sure what happened and dont know if I need to bring up the fact that I would like for him to talk to me when things bother him. I have this feeling since his meeting went fine, that the exOW was there and maybe words were said...because I think that would be the only thing he wouldnt want to talk about with me. They dont get along at all anymore. Which is fine with me, but should I let him know he can talk to me about it, or just let it go and let him work through it on his own??