See, the thing is, Allen, you are a strong poster. I like that.
There are other strong posters here, oldtimers, who will feel threatened and come after you. Don't know why other opinions are not well-tolerated.
I have been called names here too and asked what I am doing here, but it mostly just amuses me to get such a strong reaction.
You are hitting a few nerves here, and that's a good thing.
Thanks K... I am a strong voice here I know, that's not my fault that I have an opinion.
I don't like hitting nerves, I am aiming for hitting flawed logic. Unfortunatley for some people here they attach the logic they post TO their nerves.
I am less perturbed with Lotus' exchanges yesterday than I am with the one-sided assessment of them this morning.. Honestly, I COULD have been easier on her, and I pulled a LOT of punches that I WANTED to throw too...
Could I have been more delicate? Of course I could have... and I did OFFER to, but that's when the attacks just got worse...
But no one here this morning seems to want to even read that.
WHen you have two people in a court-room and it gets into "he said" - "she said" it gets tossed out and both people get a stern warning...
When two siblings argue and a parent has to break it up you get that dismissed to..
But in THESE cases the dispute is uncertain, no one knows what REALLY happend...
But HERE on this THREAD the attacks are RIGHT THERE and everyone is turning a BLIND eye to them...
This is much the same behaviour peopel offer up when you plead with them to help you end a damn affair ... they just give you the "I didnt' see anything.. shame on you for gossiping and criticizing your spouse" and run off...
Well, I am sick to death of the ostrich attitude, its in the public at large re infidelity and its even on this thread...
If you are gonna post a comment then assess the full exchange and stop attacking ONE PERSON ONLY...
Serioulsy Kimmie, you CAN tell me I should have toned it down a notch, you wouldlnt' be wrong there...
Its the blatant glossing over commentary that i am seeing this morning that has me so riled up today.
