So moment has passed. Just got an email from H that went along the lines of: we have an equal share of raising the boys moving forward.
What crap!! He has his share every second weekend and I do everything else. He doesnt do homework, school runs, sic days, holiday cover, school lunches etc etc etc.
In fact interestingly the last time I chatted to his mom she said, Now you are responsible for raising these boys and making them who they are.
Is he saying he wants an equal share or raising the kids? As in shared jointed custody? Mention all those things that you've mentioned above to us, is he willing to share in all those things - if he is, let him, reality is a little different than the perceived reality we have in our heads.
