So moment has passed. Just got an email from H that went along the lines of: we have an equal share of raising the boys moving forward.
What crap!! He has his share every second weekend and I do everything else. He doesnt do homework, school runs, sic days, holiday cover, school lunches etc etc etc.
In fact interestingly the last time I chatted to his mom she said, Now you are responsible for raising these boys and making them who they are.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived