I gave my W some of the peripheral contact #'s for my D16.75. All we have to go on for contact #'s is just Aunt's and such that she has very irregular contact with to the best of my knowlege. I was quite surprised that my W was interested but when she expressed interest I passed the number or two that I had.
There is a bit more 'normalized' contact/communication between W & I. Just seems like I am at the county fair on one of the largest merry-go-round'carousels. I am trying hard ..real hard to resist the urge to be cynical/skeptical as to motivations and such. Need to utilize prayer much more. Act-as-if much more. Live in the moment much more. Be thankful for the so much that I got much more. Sleep some more.
Bye
May the Lord guide you and your willingness to accept His counsel in all things be great.