Normally H would go quiet until next week but he rang me this morning and said 'really sorry I missed you yesterday .....'Hasn't said that since he went and even before he went.
Don't understand. He has just moved in full time with OW and tells D21 he is very happy! and now he is sending me nice texts and ringing me to tell me he missed me yesterday.
Anyone got any ideas what is going on with him now?
Don't understand. He has just moved in full time with OW and tells D21 he is very happy! and now he is sending me nice texts and ringing me to tell me he missed me yesterday.
Anyone got any ideas what is going on with him now?
Unfortunately, I dont think anything they do means a lot I dont think they think much about their behavior continue Gal taking care of yourself and try to establish a connection with h that is amlicable and works for you I used to also read into every thing xh did , some of his behaior at that time seemed like he would come closer and it was very confusing, but for me it all meant nothing peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
The OW sees a lot of what we see, but they are more than willing to put up w/the BS for the fun and money. The crisis children wear masks and they do come off a lot when the day is done. The crisis children lie just as much to them as they do to us. Unfortunately the op don't know them as well as we do, therefore, they don't always catch on until later and hell hath no fury when they do.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
L I always felt the OW put blinders on she put up with anything sh3 was living with a M man and being 14 years younger in her mid twenties.. she saw my xh coming here staying for long periods of time visiting his children at first 6x a week Im sure xh lied to her he certainly lied /denied her to me MY brother knew OW..sahe was xh secretary for a while my brother didnt know about the A they hid it he worked with xh brother said she was a bimbo/ druggie type with cosmtic enhancments..she drank and smoked partied some I never did
I never met her..she called me once..long after the A started after they were m I THINK SHE SOUNDED MOUSELIKE she called for one reason, but I sensed she was calling to clear the air with me like me affirming her or their R b/c they were M now I gave her nothing ..told her I cant talk right now or anytime in the future to her--but I was professional and cordial to her and got off quickly like the way one might handle a phone soliciter I beleive most of these OW are predater types they have little morals ..self centered they are sick sad part is when OW hooked up with xh he had a good business he was somewhat stable a good father he was clean and sober he might have been a good catch to someone like her
but now he is on drugs/drinking total liar on unemployment no job IN debt so sadly so, she is M to a real mess peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
H is lying so much I don't think even he knows what the tuth is anymore.
Peace, like your xh mine has his own business but it is now in dire straits and he is in debt big time but still spending on holidays, meals and drink. He also is drinking much more than when we were together.
I believe that his business will become bankrupt in the not to distant future.
I'm sure when the money dries up and she can't have her holidays, nights out and lovely clothes he buys her the fur will fly.
Maybe now they have moved in together 24/7 reality will come home to roost quicker!
We sound like we're in the same boat. I thought my wife may be reconnecting but it was just a touch and go as she is now getting ready to date a guy she met online. It seems as though her lying as actually increased over the past month.
You sound like you are doing well. Hang in there. Take care.
LIbby can you make sure you are financially safe MY H was also on the way to wrecking the business I took control of it but since my brrother was there, that helped watch yourself the credit cards make sure your name is off all of his seperate everything if you have not have you spoke to a L>>Just for advice peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
