It is a good sign ya.. be VERY careful in feeding her more memories.. tread lightly there, she may at any time snap the door shut on you for pursuing her.

Good sign though yes, I would take it as one.

I honeslty don't think all of your wife's nastiness is you. I suspect there is some depression there. Until those chemicals are back in balance she's going to be difficult to deal with. I believe MWD has a section in DR for dealing wtih a spouse with depression. I will give that a read.

Don't be so eager for her to improve dude, she's taking her time and she needs that. Emotional processes take time. I am worried she's picking up off your eagerness. Do you have anything you do constructive at home to distract you from her at all?