I don't disagree with a lot of the principles you discuss regarding exposure and dealing with an A at all. I do however take huge issue with your style and attitude. Do you think there is a chance you can temper your posts a bit Allen?
And not a word to Lotus about any of her mudslinging at all... just a one-sided attack on me and not a mention of her... un-freakin-believable.
You need to learn DIPLOMACY saffie. This means addressing BOTH people in a conflict.
I already SAID I can temper my posts, I already OFFERED to - Lotus did not, but here we are with a one-sided post yet again.
Sigh
There's a front and back to each book, if all you read is the cover you learn nothing much at all.
I took mudslinging from Lotus multiple times here, and you glossed over it without a mention and go after me and call me jeuvenile... and now you want me to temper my posts without so much as a mention to anything Lotus has posted? Did you bother to read how "jeuvenile" Lotus' has been on this thread at all? Did you bother to read how many times I pulled punches while she blasted away like an angry child? And yet you say nothing about this.
Un-freakin-believable.
Do you seriously expect me to belive this is a reasonable post?
I cannot accept this post and retain my dignity, my apologies in advance for that.
I can certainly understand if this was a phone call and you had no idea what was said... Lotus plays the victim well and if this were in the dark I would certainly come out to appear the likley bad guy... But the text is right here in the thread for you to read and you chose to ignore it.
Saffie, when you post something that shows me you have read the entire exchange I will entertain the content of this post of yours above to the extent it truly deserves becuase there is some worthwhile commentary here, but sorely lacking in a fair treatment of the exchange. You can't possibly expect anyone to retain their diginity and accept this as a reasonable response. To me right now you just look biased beyond even my belief.