So this Saturday (should be her night to have him, long story) she asked if she could come over and stay the night. She mentioned I could still do what ever I was going to.
Oh, you should DEFINITELY make sure you have some plans and keep them.
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I don't have any plans, should I go out anyway (GAL), or should I make it a "family" night. We already laid the groundwork (no pun intended) for a little Saturday fun before she wanted to stay the night.
I would recommend going out while she is at your place. Remember earlier that I told YOU that YOU should have some friends of the female persuasion? You better hurry up and get one or more. Just find one you can be buddy's with.
The whole key here Jake is to look like YOU are cake eating too. You want your wife wondering why you are so cool calm and collected and not chasing her. Remember.. Good for the goose is good for the gander. Be nice. Be mysterious. Go out and have some fun, fun, fun and then get home late and continue to act as you have been. NO relationship talks. Everything is water off a ducks back to you. You want her to think that you are perfectly happy just the way things are in your life. You want her to wonder if it is YOU that is cake eating. Good for the goose is good for the gander....
Tell her you will be home early and then get home late. If she says something about that, just say, "oh sorry, I guess I didn't realize what time it was... Then drop it....
Enjoy the moment. Enjoy that you are being nice to each other. Enjoy that she is chasing you now. Enjoy that she WANTS to come over Saturday.... Enjoy your night out..
