Are you getting good marital advice?

[MrBond]

I enjoy a good debate as well as the next person, but I have to say some of these comments have been pretty disrespectful.

There is no right or wrong approach when it comes to an A. Sometimes the passive thing works, sometimes the more aggressive side works. It's up to the individual. We don't have a right to condemn someone for their decision. It's their decision that they have to live with not us.

Check out the sites that deal strictly with infidelity and not just on here. You'll see both sides of the coin. There is no one-size-fits all solution.

Even the times on here where a person appears to be a "doormat", sometimes that method worked in the end.

This site is called "Divorce Busting." That's the ultimate goal. How you get there is up to you.