HB is so on the money there CW, we are in a financial pickle because of H's leaving, ironically because I GAL and got a job its me supporting him, well not really which is the problem not enough to go round effectively. I am losing out big time, but believe me if I had got to D point I would have wanted to take him down if I had kids too, but my S is grown up so I would have only been hurting myself it would have been better to play on his guilt and let him look after me which he always said he would..

All you can do is pass him the rope at this point and hope hes not daft enough to use it, but he will at least for a bit.. your best hope is that over time he will get bored and hanker after his home comforts but even that is gonna be a shock because you sure arnt going to be as comfortable as you used to be!

Thanks for your support on my thread much appreciated hun!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!