"All rise"

[Bworl]

Frank,

I'm glad this part of the process is over for you.

I'm also irate at how the legal system so indiscriminantly awards custody and money to one spouse or the other.


It boggles the mind how on one hand the legal system refuses to assign blame in the demise of the marriage and then on the other hand willingly chooses which parent is the more fit one by awarding primary custody.


This is NOT justice.



A man and woman who divorce, assuming that both truly love their children and WANT time with them, should have equal time with their children. PERIOD. There is no legitimate reason for our court system to select one parent over the other when both are capable parents and when both want the time with the children.


It makes me want to scream from the rooftops that you get only 2 out of every 14 evenings with your two children. Meanshile the woman who CHOSE to become a serial adultress, who CHOSE to break the vows/promises she made, who CHOSE to turn this separation into an all out war - she not only suffers no consequences for those actions (God forbid our legal system render a judgement on the morality of screwing around when you're married), she is actually rewarded on the basis of her gender and deemed the parent who SHOULD receive both primary custody and financial support from you.



It's absolutely ridiculous.



For years and years I thought little of no fault divorce. Now that I've experienced it, I see much more clearly the many little insidious fingers that make it such a glaring black mark on our society as a whole.



Enough of my rant.


Frank, my greatest hope for you is a lengthy period of healing and peace. You have been through an emotional war for the past couple years, and there are many times that I can almost literally see the slow damage it is doing on you. Know that from here on out, things will begin to improve. Find your way, enjoy the days without the constant hatred and animosity being directed your way.


I'm glad the end is beginning.


Blessings,

Bill