DU, I hope you can tell yourself that he is spewing and not turn his words inward. I'm glad that you've identified that it's not good for you to talk with him...that will give you strength to prevent it next time.
It's good to read about you enjoying life's small pleasures
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.