8, I'm glad to read that you're planning to take action to make your workplace a safer place for you. I can't remember if you're in IC, but it think that it would be a good idea to talk to a professional to process the experience. I imagine that some of your thoughts and feelings are hard to talk about with people, but it's really good to make space for them so that this experience doesn't leave a residue in your life.
And about the bird...I'd be calling that Feng Shui consultant so fast. Seriously. I'm not superstitious, but there is something happening in your home and it could be help you to take some concrete actions (even if they are symbolic) to manifest your intentions in your home base. You've been invaded by that man and then by a bird of prey. I believe that working with life experiences on a symbolic level (as with Feng Shui) can create powerful subconscious ripples, and that is why humans have used rituals since before recorded history.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.