What she WANTED when she had HOPE, is NOT what she may want NOW...
When a spouses' hope fades, their willingness to accept love blocks out too.. it just reminds her of all the HURT and she doens't want you opening that door... and PURSUIT FORCES it open.
Ever tried to force a door open on someone? Do you honeslty think that's going to end well? It won't.
So you play milkman. YOu drop the bottles on the doorstep and wait to see what she picks up.. tha'ts all you can do.
You can show her you are WILLING to offer these things to her without OFFERING them to her. Offer them to friends, family, talk on the phone different... BE a different person around everyone else and she will pick that up and you will have done nothing tp push her.
