It seems I'm the only girlie girl on your thread. Oh well, that's OK by me, as long as the boys play fair, I'll keep on talking. Just so you know, we don't have any kids so, I'm rolling down the same river as you are.
Once in a while, I'll call my tbx and talk for about 30 seconds or a minute before he gets aggravated and hangs up. He can't handle having contact with me, probably because it makes him face his deamons, which scares him, I think.
Anyway, I do try, in a relavant way not to wish any harm on him. Actually, I wish the harm on the other women; yes there are several!!! I guess I'm predisposed to displacing my hurts and angers on them instead. Whether this is healthy or not, I know not. I do try to forgive him over and over -- it is a process you know...
As for whatis... how the heck are you?
And wholeagain... please take it easy on me; I'm still smarting(fragile) from last year.
