Hi D- Your wife probably does see your son as a peer..she's in teenage land right now, right? I think my H sees my D14 as a peer at times..just weird, huh?
Maybe your wife's physical pain is a manifestation of her mental pain-not uncommon, but tricky for doctors to diagnose... I don't think smoker's can hide the fact that they smoke..you can smell the smoke on clothes..it lingers..so she's probably not really fooling the doctors.
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Lies, lies, and more lies. It's like she can't help herself. She lies when she doesn't have to.
Isn't that the MLC way? It seems to be one of the hardest things for all of us LBSers to deal with, maybe because we often are the ones that see or know the truth.
D- Hang in there. Detach. By the way, you ARE special. There is no one else on earth like you.
Last edited by kjensen; 03/19/1003:41 AM.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
