SpinFree...I also just went and read one of your threads, the one about losing weight and boundaries.
I know several people told you in that thread that she sounds like a scary beeotch, and you said that her friends describe her that way, too.
However, from what I read in that thread, you are contributing to the volatile atmosphere just as much as she is. Of course, I only read that one thread, but honestly, you both sound like scary beeotches to me. No offense, just giving you my perspective.
You both sound like you really need some marital help or you are headed for divorce. When you get to the point where you are both blaming each other and neither of you sees the destruction you are causing, you are nearly doomed by then.
How are things lately? I don't know any more about your sitch than that one thread and this post above.
