5 more days till the Big D

[ClingingToHope]

BKNHRT. If I didn't have kids I would likely have quit my job and just taken off to Florida. Now, I can't because of the girls and now I'm really starting to feel better. So maybe having the kids kept me from overreacting.

I still have a lot of days where I hate my W and we aren't even close to the difficult part of the negotiations. If she ends up with custody and I get less time with my girls than I have now that feeling will grow.

When she has good days it makes me crazy.

I hope someday I don't feel that way. Someone posted once that I will have truly healed when I not only don't hate her, but I root for her to succeed.

I'm interested in hearing what non kid divorcees have to say. If I didn't have the girls, I doubt I'd ever see my stbx. We just have vastly different circles of friends. Happily, my group is a lot larger and growing all the time now that I'm not spending 99 percent of my emotional energy trying to figure stbx out.