Here's the one from her previously...Thanks - your e-mail made sense. I don't need "marriage counseling" but maybe just someone to talk to about me. So there are others out there like me? I almost want to talk to a lady like that to get her advice, I guess we would both be lost. Thing is, you would be like my husband - getting hurt and divorced for no reason of your own, you did nothing wrong and its not fair to hurt you for our selfishness. Tell me how you felt cuz I am guessing if we did divorce he would feel that way, what do I expect him to do??

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