Sol, do you remember when I asked my spouse to go for MC with me, she said "why should I go for counselling, it will just show that I'm to blame and I already know that, so why should I go". I think there is lots of coo coo, as you put it, to go around! Hey, glad you don't have a backyard anymore...but keep an eye on your balconey! Personally, I miss having a backyard to drink coffee and read the paper in on Saturday mornings but I don't miss the "companionship" that went with it!
