Are you getting good marital advice?

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Lotus go reads sasha's thread in this section. Or Undefeated. You can see 2 betrayed posters here showing their anger to a woman who committed adultery. Go Read it. While your at it. Take some time to read our opinion on Sandie.

Then take some time to actually read the history of the poster.

Allen A did bo-peep for over a year. A year. And it cost him his health. I know this because not only do I take the time to read his words. I take the time to understand what has shaped him to post as he does. Just like I have read your posts and and taken the time to understand what has shaped you to post as you do.

And you post to me the other day. Was down right rude. I was a true friend to their marriage. I did what no one else would do to save their marriage. I showed him the true depth of the pain that I was experiencing. I showed him what it was doing to his wife and child. It killed me every day to watch an affair take place so I could destroy it. You could not even take the time to figure out who was having the affair and it was 2 posts above. Do not ever belittle the effort and self sacrifice I did to save their marriage. Its insulting. And I am damn well proud of what I did. I will carry that pride with me forever. Pain is temporary. Pride is forever. I was a true friend.