"I'm thinking your tbx was a bit of a loose cannon, am I remembering right? Like on the edge of dangerous? I hope that has settled down, as things are moving forward."
Hi Jeff and Cling,
Yes, you are right Jeff. He was a "bit of a loose cannon" and that's a good way to describe it. Luckily, he's calmed down over the past year, but he's moved on to other women, namely, women of the night. I can't compete with that, and Lord knows, I don't want to. But, I've had people, friends and neighbors tell me that my sitch was so horrible that they are "glad I'm not you."
I truly wish there was someone, anyone on these boards who went though something even remotely similar to what I did. There's no one who I can really relate to, and in fact, many here don't (I hate to say this, but it's true) or can't even fathom what it was like to be totally blown away, discarded for whores half your age. Oh well, it is what it is, and I've gotten used to it now.
My attorney has some things up her sleeve, which I can't discuss now for fear that someone "incognito" might be reading. All I can say is, if I come out of this literally able to "survive," then I'll be OK.
