I think you don't have to worry about your kids getting the wrong ideas about marriage and fidelity from your X. They will learn from you. Not by what you say, but what you do.
My kids are just a couple years ahead in maturity than yours, and they really do realize that. I was talking to D10 last night. I think she is realizing what her dad is like. I'll post more of that on my thread, so I don't hijack yours. But I find myself kind of defending him, which I kind of don't want to do. I don't think I should defend my X anymore than you should say anything about your X whether negative or positive. It's easier said than done though!!!!
