Number 8's Revelations, Mistakes, and New Methods

[flowmom]

8, telling your boss is not enough IMO. You shouldn't have to deal with a stalker and potential rapist in your workplace. You did nothing to invite this and your employer has a responsibliity to deal with this issue. An official complaint is necessary to protect you. He could pull all sorts of stuff to drag you down in your job and you won't have a leg to stand on if all you do is have a chat with someone. You're probably only starting to process your feelings about this. But I would recommend that you take action so that you don't end up having to leave your job to protect yourself. Make him pay the price for his actions...don't pay it for him by being afraid in the workplace and at home.