B/H have a ? for you sorry for the hijack MissH......my husband finally went to c/s court not even in front of a judge all he had to do was sign some papers TELLING him how much to pay.....no court appearence no judge......and the funny thing he seems happy with it......he got himself a JOB now, roofing.......he is 48 working on a roof??? He is no spring chicken anymore I wonder how long that is going to last.......what is his way of thinking about C/S why could he just not send money every month....seems relieved there is a court ordered C/S any ideas???