Yes, she will respond really well to both you and your W acting very calm and confident about the schedule. Have a calendar up with large squares and have special stickers to show nights with dad and nights with mom. The more that she feels that you are doing your parent jobs, the more that she will feel free to work on her job of being a kid. I don't see it as much about discipline as about feeling safe and cared for.
I'm glad you get it. Your W may not be willing to be a grownup in many areas, but this is an area where she won't have any choice
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
