In the case of the pain caused by the cheater to his spouse, that is collateral damage. It is an accidental result of the action he has chosen to take. While it is possible that someone might cheat and flaunt it against the spouse, usually they go to some trouble to try to hide the affair.
You are implying cheaters HIDE their affairs to spare their spouse pain... sure, I have heard that one... from my cheating spouse!
This is BS, sorry, but cheaters hide affairs so they can CONTINUE them.
Accident I think not.. they KNOW what they are doing and they KNOW they are hurting people... the suggestion that they are some innocent and don't intend any harm is just silly...
Telling the public the truth about the damage being done to someone's home is EXPOSING pain done by an affair.
Sorry, but your line of reasoning would suggest no one should be reporting crimes of any kind... it just invites a LOT of abuse.. I can't accept this as making any sense at all.
"I didn't know I was hurting you and trashing my marriage, that was an accident, honest..."
