3. I have confronted W and she has agreed to No Contact. I will confront OW in a 1/2 hour with the NC agreement.
Please reconsider handling it that way, if it's not too late.
I agree with Pearl on this.
Originally Posted By: Pearlharbr
What does W mean by saying you need to be the one to convey the NC rules? You set the rules for W? You tell OW? I don't buy the second one at all. W should write a NC letter to OW which is read, approved, and sent by you. I can't remember where I read the guidelines, but it should convey the message that W is ending all contact with OW because she is committed to working on her marriage to you.
