My birthday is the 26th. If she gets me something I will be shocked. I keep trying to stay detached, but I miss her alot. WE have shared 32 birthdays, I don't know how I will feel if she doesn't do anything, but I will not freak out.
These months apart have been really tough, not just because she is gone, but how she left and the way she has treated our family has been appaling. On top of that, my career has taken a nose dive, so there has been a lot of stress.
My W truly seems to be in a MLC cause she is making no effort to reconcile with her kids or grandkids.
I understand how you feel about not wanting a D, I feel the same way. I have now idea what my W is doing, we have not mentioned D since december.It as if we were never married!!
