1. Keylogger: She's a geek. I'm not. How can I install keylogging software on her computer without her copping to it?
2. I have told all but the OW's parents and one couple (who might help but might also just through gasoline all over and light it, emotionally speaking)
3. I have confronted W and she has agreed to No Contact. I will confront OW in a 1/2 hour with the NC agreement.
I AM afraid to do more "snooping" if I'll get caught. But I am getting more intel in general.
I get the pre-warn friends and family thing. That might be something I can do more of.
Thank you
Amybel
M: 46, WAW:47 M: 12y T: 16y EA with OW 2/26/10 Bomb 3/9 "in love w/ my ex" MC 3/12 NC 3/17 Bomb 3/31 "D on April 9 Trial Sep 4/1 http://tinyurl.com/amybelstory