1. Keylogger: She's a geek. I'm not. How can I install keylogging software on her computer without her copping to it?

2. I have told all but the OW's parents and one couple (who might help but might also just through gasoline all over and light it, emotionally speaking)

3. I have confronted W and she has agreed to No Contact. I will confront OW in a 1/2 hour with the NC agreement.

I AM afraid to do more "snooping" if I'll get caught. But I am getting more intel in general.

I get the pre-warn friends and family thing. That might be something I can do more of.

Thank you


Amybel

M: 46, WAW:47
M: 12y
T: 16y
EA with OW 2/26/10
Bomb 3/9 "in love w/ my ex"
MC 3/12
NC 3/17
Bomb 3/31 "D on April 9
Trial Sep 4/1
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