I don't know. I asked him if he wanted to because I felt it is an obligation on my part.

He has gone maybe once or twice, and he never spends more than ten seconds extra with D unless he is obligated to do so. So this is a unusual. I distrust him.

I figure maybe he is trying to establish a better track record as a parent for custody? We are D'd now so that is kind of a nonissue, but that is about all I can think of.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D