The key is for you to get out of the high school world that H is trying to put you in. Don't play the blame game or anything else. Just live your life. If he wants to join you, he will. If he doesn't you will be in a better place anyway. You talking to him is not going to make him want to change. He has to do that on his own.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
