As for H...it is a long story, but to keep it short because I am tired and don't feel like really Any thoughts or advice...please let me know because right now I am in uncharted territory and I don't want to give up prematurely, but at the same time, I need to make sure I protect S and I.
Sweets, advice? We can only tell you what we think based on what you write. Soemetimes when I was pushing for him to proceed, people asked me "why file? what will it change for you?" I wanted closure, somekind of an ending/beginning. Still, I never filed. But our situations are different. Listen to your gut feeling, NOT fear. Fear is a bad advisor. In your shoes, I would proceed. Stay strong xx K