so when she said she was unsatisfied, what was your response, to listen? so when she has told you that she wants to go to counseling, do you listen or doubt her? when she tells you she doesn't believe the changes do you show her the changes are real or do you talk about the possibility of doing heart surgery and yada yada yada here instead of moving?
Bradley... something tells me you don't want to move you don't want to then don't don't turn this into a martyr situation where you go on to make your wife very aware of what sacrifices you have made.
you are married marriage is work
do the work
my job is in danger of being cut very real almost certain danger
I am a teacher...budget cuts suck and we live in an area that does not afford me a lot of opportunites.
Cori has his dream job the thought of moving has not entered our conversations
he would move in a heartbeat without question if I said I needed to
I would never ask to move because he has his dream job
I am a teacher I will be a teacher if I waitress, shovel sh!t, paint houses or teach....
he is much more important that if I write on my white board or teach Shakespeare to the masses...you know
when you start counting your wife as more important and her happiness as more important then you will know
and you can tell me that you are by moving and all that jazz but let me tell you I am not hearing it
I am hearing you don't want to move but you will because you have to I am hearing you feel like she is calling all the shots and you don't like it I hear you giving lip service to DB principles but I don't see you shutting up...which is also a DBing principle
does that make sense? to anyone? Jack (damn...I can't believe we are a united front...have I gotten soft or have you gotten b!tchy?)
