It's great that H wants to talk to a counselor and some people to work out his issues, but just watch out for him trying to find people to validate his own beliefs. I hope he does find someone who can knock some sense into him!
The visitation agreement is tough. I think about it too sometimes about having to give S up to H and it just breaks me. But for the good or bad, he still is his father. I think you have to go thru with this as you take steps to move forward with your life. Even if you do decide to wait it out a little longer, it will still be good to have this in process for S's sake. I know you don't want to give up too easily but you should have a good idea for sure where he is at shortly. He has to make some final decisions now about where he wants to live now etc and if he is not willing to try to work things out or actively pursuring ways to improve himself, then there is not much to work with for you. I think you know where this is going but you still have some time before filing for him to prove you wrong. If he really doesn't want a D and truely wants to be with you and only you, then he should fight for you. Yes, I know he is a broken man, but he just needs to give you a reason for hope.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
