I like hypocritical, much richer descriptive in this case.
This is very often the response though.. shock, outrage, and defensiveness...
The key driver is that a fantasy has been trounced on... No one likes their dreams being spoiled... even if they are hurtful.
It's just double standards really, i brought that up in my home when WS complained about her privacy being violated... I had our network monitored for ip addresses and system port usage... she complained her privacy was being violated... I quickly countered with "and the private details of our marriage are being shared with this man you are having sex with... MY privacy is being violated and you don't seem to give a damn about that..."
I got no response... as I expected.
Criminals steal and cheat each other all the time, they STILL complain about it... many people walk about with a double-standard value system...
Its ok for me to do what I want, but everyone else has to follow the rules... the rules I want them to follow... so to speak
