LFA, I'm a firm believer that looking good outside makes you feel good inside. Nothing to be ashamed of. Sassy glasses are awesome! I got a red pair last year that have silver skulls and crossbones on the side. You've inspired me to wear them out to dinner tonight.
I think Kara is right. Having H see you coming and going looking good and happy with your life is a good thing.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g