It is dangerous to involve too many people in your marital relationship. My father always said, "Don't take sides with friends who are having marital problems. They will get back together and get all lovey-dovey, and you are out in the cold as the person who said bad things about the spouse. Your reward is that they'll both hate you."
It makes it hard to reconcile when you have involved family, friends and the boss in the dirty laundry of your home life.
And again this line of reasoning is contrary to MWD's Geurilla Divorce Busting Video... MWD is a strong advocate in getting involved in other peoples marriage troubles.. she reccomends it strongly in a 45 min talk on video available at youtube.
MWD does NOT reccomend minding ones own business when someone's marriage is in trouble.
To her mind marriages are community pillars and should be protected by everyone in the community, not left to stave to death for lack of support.
