You said: I am really torn on what to do with him. Part of me wants to just send him a letter and tell him that I am done, either me or you continue your EA/B&B vacation at your Mom's house. But.... you know I just can't help but feel that is what he wants me to do. I think the H wants me to give up so that it isn't his fault it is MINE!
I get this feeling too sometimes with my H. Not sure what to do about it.
Maybe it's time for you to read some stuff on this board about detachment so you can help yourself get off his rollercoaster while still staying open to reconciliation. Otherwise, you won't make it. He will drive you crazy with his love/hate antics.
