My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

The H is so wishy washy.... He does want to put the blame on me. He tried to call me 3 times this morning and texted once. Someone was very impatient....and it wasn't me. He wanted to know how much I thought he should have withhold from his check for the IRA he was signing up for. Reallly? I thought you wanted to be divorced so why do you need me to help with this? A moment of weakness maybe or just his crazy foggy life...

I am really torn on what to do with him. Part of me wants to just send him a letter and tell him that I am done, either me or you continue your EA/B&B vacation at your Mom's house. But.... you know I just can't help but feel that is what he wants me to do. I think the H wants me to give up so that it isn't his fault it is MINE!

I really don't know what to do....He certainly seemed in a more upbeat pleasant mood this morning when I talked to him. Kind of like the old days. Ohhh H were are you? He came by the house yesterday while I was at work. Don't think he did much of anything except check the mail. Hopefully played with the dog some. This has been really tough on the little guy too! I don't think the H realizes how much the dog misses him.....right, because he doesn't care about anyone but himself at this point. Right, right, right. I forgot. silly me!