You do NOT want to confront H until you have SOLID, undeniable proof. Right now, all you have is suspicions. Nothing concrete. You're only going to make it harder if you broach the subject prematurely.
Also, don't have unrealistic expectations, meghunny. I know this is hard, but it's still going to take some time until he's ready to fix these things. Until then, the most you would get is a half-reconcilliation and it will be easily broken again. You want strong threads to stand on before you start moving forward in this R.
((hugs))
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
