And it really saddens me that I would have to explain this to anyone here in the DB forums.
I read both DB and DR and must have missed the chapter that said it was best to stay stuck on the past, poison children's minds, hold grudges, be judgemental and be one angry a$$hole. Hmmm, I always thought Michele's underlying philosophy was brief solution oriented therapy so as to solve problems going forward without digging up a painful past.
