Well a good friend of mine sadly is visiting the same lawyer on Tuesday. I'll look to her as to what to expect.
I really don't see how I can stay in the marriage as there has been so much infidelity....first with my best friend of 10 years...the one that stung the most. Then a trickle of different women, the latest is the 5x felon some of you may know about. I haven't even touched on the alcoholism.

Seems pretty black and white doesn't it? When you spell it out. It's just hard to let go of this, to him. Especially when he was none of these things for the first 10-13 years we've been together.

I'm 31, he's all I've ever known. I've never dated anyone else. It's scary and hopefully maybe at a chance at a decent relationship someday??? But lots of uncertainty.


Me: 31
H: 30
Son 2.5

Minnesota