I get it, and you're right, the mirror work is tough. I know my part in blowing this M.
SA,
I'm not just talking about what went wrong with this.
It is good to reflect the past.
It is equally as good to see the person you want to be in that mirror.
The person you are, and want to be....in every form of you.
Do you like the way you look, interact, your attitude, anything about yourself that you deem questionable...
Think of this as your own little MLC, you just get to do it with a clear mind, and conscious...
Those questionable features....now is the time for the chopping block.
Do( did) you speak with your heart ? or your head ?
Which do you prefer to speak with ?
Are you a forgiving spirit ?
To yourself AND others ?
Are you comfortable in your own skin ?
Those are the things that YOU deserve right now....
And , I really don't need these answers...they are for you, and now is the time for them...
All the answers you desire are inside of you, just make sure you ask yourself the hard questions....
I'm just getting you started....
: )
Originally Posted By: SeekingAnswers
If the above sounds like a pity party, I admit I feel sorry for all that we've lost. I feel even more sorry for my Ds. They're the biggest losers in all this. The events that have transpired are very confusing to all of us. I will protect them and do what I can to minimize the damage.
Be careful with this please....
I have seen a lot of people use children (although the intentions are good ) as a battle cry for a pity party of Titanic proportion....
There is sadness for what our children endure through this.
Use that anger, and sadness as a shield that covers them, and be the rock for them.
